What Is A Marriage!
Marriage is a ceremonial statement of a feeling, which binds two people together,
It is not a marriage, which binds, but the love, respect and enjoyment which two people share. The Betrothed invite all their family and friends, to show them their public statement, that they are in love, and wish to commit to each other openly. And for all guests to witness this statement that they have found the fun, pleasure, and opportunities of their lives enhanced by being together, helping each other develop their full potential, and gathering shared memories. Together they are sharing with their guests, and witness their undying love for each other.
A Wedding means that the concerned; choose to make it meaningful. At one extreme they may intend it as a ceremonial announcement, like this to their family and friends, that they are in love. And wish to share this love forever. Marriage means that they are still treated as individuals, but also as a part of each other. A wedding then is a celebration, and what the couple get out of it, is exactly what they put into it, reinforced by the presence and goodwill of all those assembled at the ceremony.
Perfect Love and Perfect Trust; this is the Law of Marriage; Perfect Love is not synonymous with sex; sex, tenderness, intimacy; are a part of Perfect Love. But so are charity, security, respect, patience, friendship, humour, compassion; and a hundred other expressions that many only truly think about when they look them up in a dictionary.
Each person individually brings to their ceremony their own unique individuality, which means that each ceremony is and should be written to suit the needs of the couple that are to be married. A wedding is not only adding individuality but special notes of the couples journey to this auspicious occasion, making it the most memorable day of the couples lives.
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